So says Linda Meredith, Gwyneth Paltrow's facialist. Yes, Gwynnie
"You can use the most expensive creams in the world on your skin but the main cause of skin problems come from emotional stress and diet. We need to deal with skin problems not types. For example we are all dehydrated, and often congested, because of our exposure to chemicals, hormones and preservatives.
Our grandmothers got away with washing their face with a bar of soap - and still had great skin - but our lifestyle is completely different now. "
Hmm. Not too sure about this, but that last bit ...
I'm not sure quite what my skin is to be honest. I think it's quite dry but therapists never seem to agree.
And I actually think there is a real step change in skin care that shows in those of us now in our 50s and beyond. Our mothers, and grandmothers, if they're still with us often many more wrinkles. I personally think you can have good skin with wrinkles. My stepmother is a good example. She has quite a lot of wrinkles BUT has lovely skin tone and texture. So I'd say she's got very good skin for her age ... 80s. I wonder if we've won the battle on wrinkles but lost something in the game?
I have very few wrinkles ... largely down to the size of my arse and lucky dip in the gene pool ... but I rely on make up to fake the tone and glow. Once made up I think I'm doing OK.
I can't remember where I read it but someone somewhere in skincare said that exfoliation had been the real breakthrough.
I do agree about what she says about expensive creams. I've tried most of the 'high end' brands (Gatineau, Elemis, Decleor etc) and none made a blind bit of difference to my skin, so I now moisturise with a much cheaper brand. I'm lucky that I've inherited mum's genes and have a good skin for my age so have put that down as the reason that people think I'm in my early 50s, rather than all the greasy concoctions I've used in the past. I drink a lot of water, get a good night's sleep and have never sunbathed and I eat a healthy diet. And as I'm now enjoying a relaxed and 'laid back' retirement, there's no way that I suffer from stress.
When I've listened to the 'experts on' QVC, for example, my conclusion was that if so and so product is so fantastic then why are there so many different brands purporting to be the best. They're after our money - end of.
I'm going to grow old(er) gracefully instead and will keep my money in my pocket, rather than lining the pockets of these beauty companies.
Post by Berry McPaper-cuts on Dec 24, 2017 9:38:09 GMT
I gave up exfoliating not long after I started it , never having been aware of it until I saw Decleor on QVC and got phytopeel in a TSV. I have never ever failed to remove make up before going to bed. I do use Decleor prolagene and an oil of some description plus whatever cream I have in the stash.I don’t think I am overwrinkled- Liv & Nellie will have a more balanced view of my flesh in the flesh. Young Liv and Nellie have great skin.
Exfoliating though can be as simple as using a flannel or muslin cloth to take off a cleanser or using a clarisonic or similar. You don't have to use a peel or an exfoliator. I'm not sure I believe it about exfoliations but I do think that everyone is aging more gracefully than say our grandmothers did. I think sunscreen plays a part.
Most, if not all of my friends, look younger than you would think they are. I do think though that our impression of age will change. Today's kids will grow up with grandma's who look fairly wrinkle free in their 50s and 60s so it will become the norm
Most people seem genuinely shocked when I tell them how old I am, if they don't already know. I'm older than Mr Tink but all his family assumed I was quite a bit younger than him. Not because he looks older but because they know how old he is.
I use fairly high end lotions and potions I suppose but I'm happy with them. But I don't tend to use loads of different things.
I was recently sent a picture of me and a couple of friends. None of us look our age as such but I do think you couod easily pick who's the oldest, the middle and the youngest. Or perhaps that's just because I know.
Like FP, I always remove make up before I go to bed and I use a cleanser night and morning. I exfoliate a couple of times a week, but true to my 'mantra' I use cheaper brands as they suit my skin better that the expensive brands. I know when I used Gatineau moisturisers I looked as though I'd fallen into an oil slick. I know a dewy complexion is meant to indicate 'youth' but a shiny skin that's visible from feet away wasn't the desired look.
Post by Berry McPaper-cuts on Dec 24, 2017 10:54:07 GMT
Definitely not Toril! Being very fair skinned and freckly I always have sun protection as part of my regime- my favourite being the Perricone No Foundation Foundation and I also like the Chanel one. It’s even pricier than Perricone but you get a refill as standard.
I don't think expensive creams make a scrap of difference but some people clearly do have oilier skin than others.
Genes, body weight, weather exposure (cold is as damaging as sun in terms of broken veins), smoking, regular exfoliation and moisturising are, I think, what give you the face you've got.
Don't ask me what I think of you, I might not give the answer that you want me to.
I am a recent convert to acid toners. I have been reading Caroline Hiron's blog and she is fanatical about them so I thought I would give them a go. I bought the Nip & Fab ones and also got a tub of the Rodial ones from TK Maxx. I am quite impressed. My skin is a bit dry/sensitive and I have a lot of lines. The acid exfoliators give you a nice glow.
I gave up exfoliating not long after I started it , never having been aware of it until I saw Decleor on QVC and got phytopeel in a TSV. I have never ever failed to remove make up before going to bed. I do use Decleor prolagene and an oil of some description plus whatever cream I have in the stash.I don’t think I am overwrinkled- Liv & Nellie will have a more balanced view of my flesh in the flesh. Young Liv and Nellie have great skin.
You and Liv do have great skin, FP - I have fat. LOL
Don't ask me what I think of you, I might not give the answer that you want me to.
I think continued use of skincare does make a difference though. It doesn't have to be the most expensive in the world, but something has got to be better than nothing surely? I've tried to look after the old boat race since my early 20's, and not to blow my own trumpet, I don't think I look the 42 year old that I am. In fact, the £2.99 per bottle serum that I get from Superdrug is a fantastic product for my very oily skin. I do usually have about three or four potions on the go at any one time and just use what I fancy slapping on that night.
An oily skin helps when one gets “slightly more mature” MrMarple, - I am not suggesting that 42 is mature, in fact you are a spring chicken compared to some ..