Let's see ...There's Mr Nell Mr Y Mr FP Mrs Moody (I could go on but I don't want to overload you Drive) So, following the pattern well established on here, M -that's me- is married to Mr M
In a bid to diffuse what is becoming a ludicrous situation, I am prepared to accept your Mr M alongside myself as plain Mr M, even though you've always referred to Mr M as Himself up to now.