Ok some are cute, some are friendly, some are useful workers, but there's another side.
Yesterday I had a five minute layover at Sainsbury's, and someone had tied their whippet to the railings outside while they shopped. The damn thing didn't stop barking (and it was a piercing bark) for the entire five minutes, and as I set off you could still hear it from the opposite side of the car park with the windows closed. God knows what it's like for the neighbours.
Add on the walking in all weathers and the accompanied picking up of poo with a clear polythene bag that you must carry with you for the remainder of the exercise. Then they expect you to play, throw sticks, that sort of thing. If I throw a stick away, it's because I don't want it, not for some mutt to gleefully run off and bring it me back. Also on the walk, it's usual for other dog owners to start conversation, generally about their dog and poo habits - I am not interested!
I'm sorry but it's a torment I really can't understand folk putting themselves through. Cats are different, a cat will exercise itself, clear up it's own poo, and apart from demanding food every so often will leave you in peace. Cat owners do not meet up in the park and start chatting about Go Cat vs Whiskers.
So that is my rant, I've made it a poll so vote away. Mrs M wants a dog btw, when the cat finally departs. We'll see.
I can see the attraction of a dog but would never want one. Here, they bark day and night and it's not a noise you can get used to like traffic noise. Fortunately, our landlord does not allow them but all the homes around have them and when one barks, they all join in. I help to raise money for abandoned dogs, as well as cats because I deplore any kind of cruelty to any animal. We have friends with well trained, well behaved, dogs but, to me, they smell, and are hard work. I am under no illusions that our house might smell of cats because, of course, we are used to it but when eldest daughter visited, she said she couldn't smell anything. Not only would she be honest with us, but she has such a sensitive nose that I swear she could be used at Airports to sniff out contraband. Humble apologies to those who own and love dogs but I am not one of those who can coo over a sweet little puppy. Thankfully, Sam is a 100% cat man too...
It's a great pity the right of free speech isn't based on the obligation to say something sensible.
I think some people are programmed to love dogs, just as others are to like other animals. Also, most of the most fervent dog-lovers I know, were brought up with a family dog so I guess it is what you are used to.
It's a great pity the right of free speech isn't based on the obligation to say something sensible.
I would like to have a little dog as I think they are more of a companion that a cat. However, they are hard work and if I had one that constantly barked, it would drive me insane. In addition, there is winter/bad weather walking to consider (), so age and commonsense tells me it would be something I would regret. I couldn't consider it whilst I have the cats anyway.
They are cachu machines. One owner walks his dog(s?) down our lane, bags the cache & then drops it further along or throws it in the hedge. The hunt is on to find the Phantom Poo Planter
I like both. I don't have a dog because I can't give a dog the kind of home/life they need. The independent streak in the cat suits my lifestyle. I can devil off to work all day and Harvey is fine. It wouldn't be fair to do that to a dog.
Mind you Alf was quite dog like in many ways. Always with me, glued to my side given half a chance. He'd run to the door to greet me. He'd follow me about the house and garden.
I suppose a dog would be less likely to wake you up around 4:30am this time of the year, pawing the dressing table mirror and patting pots of face cream onto the floor, because it's light and must be feeding time. Grrrrr!
I suppose a dog would be less likely to wake you up around 4:30am this time of the year, pawing the dressing table mirror and patting pots of face cream onto the floor, because it's light and must be feeding time. Grrrrr!
True.
See that's another one, a cat can be chucked out at night before bedtime, a dog wouldn't put up with that.
I've never wanted a dog because they seem almost like having another child. They need so much attention. Having children and working full time all of my adult life, cats were just easier.
My mother loved dogs and cats. We had both growing up. Mother had a German Shepard named Duchess when I was a girl. Duchess didn't seem to like anyone except my mother. She was a one person dog.
Then she had gray poodle named Mitzi. She was very sweet.
Because of my lifestyle and long work hours, a cat would still be a better choice for me.
But I have close friends who have dogs that are their babies.
If you have the energy and that is want you want, then do it.
Post by Berry McPaper-cuts on May 24, 2018 20:03:10 GMT
I haven’t a problem with dogs it is because I am too idle to do all the stuff dogs need, I like the independence of cats and they are very good at organising you. There are two dogs and two cats next door . Three of them are great. One of them , a dog, is a barker and causes mayhem in their house by being destructive. Actually their two cats live in our front garden and under the cars and sometimes on Mr FP’s engine block. They have a cat flap to their food source in the garage. We had a great dog on the other side of us for many years. He was lovely.